Carolyn & Arnold's Reallllllly
Lonnnng Vacation
September 2012
Okay, so maybe it
wasn’t really that long but a 3 week vacation is longer than we’ve taken in
several years. And it was long enough to
temporarily overwhelm us when we got home about all the things that had piled
up during our absence – you know, the 1,452 email messages, the 10 pounds of
mail, the strange growth in the cottage cheese container we had managed to
overlook in the pre-vacation fridge cleanout.
We were also overwhelmed by the kindness of our daughter-in-law for
shampooing all our carpets during our absence and for Ed’s promptness in
picking us up at the airport.
We have been explaining to people that this vacation
was based on trying to keep at least some of those “we’ll drop in and see you
when we’re next in your part of the country” promises. There must be at couple dozen such promises
we’ve made knowing that we’d probably never be in “that part of the country”. But we decided that we’d at least start
making an effort. We selected four
families from Colorado, Oklahoma, Kansas, and Florida and sent a note to each
asking if we’d be welcomed if we visited and when a visit would be
possible. To our delight, all four
answered positively. While we were
waiting for their answers, Carolyn obtained a week’s reservation in a Branson,
Missouri time-share that we could use to break-up our visits.
Amtrak Rules
Normally, the
travelling part of a vacation is supposed to be so routine that it doesn’t
merit its own section and hopefully nothing happens to make it noteworthy. However, the first leg of our journey was certainly NOT normal.
We elected to travel to Denver, Colorado by ay of the train, Amtrak’s historic California Zephyr. Departing from the Downtown Sacramento train
depot in the middle of the day on Saturday, we arrived at the Downtown Denver
train depot some 30 hours later. I would
estimate there were less than 10 stops but I wasn’t counting. The ride was slow and steady, more like a
cruise than a flight or drive. According
to Google Maps the distance traveled, if done by car, would have been 886 miles, so we averaged just under 30 miles
per hour. The train conductor had
informed us that through much of the erras, the speed limit for the train is
35 or 40 miles per hour. This isn’t a
bullet train.
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Consistent with
the train’s speed was its leisurely ambiance.
There are no TVs or background music, no Wi-Fi, or sports bars. There were just a coach, a couple of sleeper
cars, an observation car, a dinner car, and a lounge car. The whole experience appeared to be designed
for relaxation and leisure. If your
party had more or less than 4 members, you would be paired up with other
passengers with different groupings at each meal which encourage the passengers
to get acquainted with one another. We
found that a definite plus. As there
were no seat belts, you were encouraged to move about the train. While a good thing, it didn’t necessarily
make my experience more interesting because of my balance and walking
problems.
Family in Littleton and a surprise (visit to Eric)
Carolyn’s brother
Ray and his wife Jeannie were at the depot to meet us. They even made sure they brought along a
large enough pickup to carry all our luggage as well as my scooter and upright
walker. Although they have a GPS, they
preferred my using my iPhone GPS to navigate us out of town and toward their
house in Littleton. When one of your
vacation objectives is to see the countryside, using a GPS all the time can be
counterproductive anyway.
Besides driving
us around the beautiful and interesting neighborhoods of Denver and Littleton,
Ray and Jeannie introduced us to their local church congregation at a Labor Day
picnic in the park and drove us about 5 miles from their house to where my
nephew Eric has recently bought a house.
It was a bonus visit since Eric had just recently moved his family from
the Washington, D.C. area and we hadn’t setup a visiting plan with Eric and
Allison and their three darling children.
We had wanted to
see the U.S. Mint in Denver but couldn’t get tour reservations that fit our
available time. Instead we spent several
hours at the beautiful botanical gardens.
It is one of those “must see” spots that is so frustrating because you
need several visits to really appreciate it.
Just spending more time won’t suffice as your head gets too full of
facts and photographs.
But probably the
capstone of our visit in Littleton for me was an evening of music. Jeannie, who is a much better piano player
than I, deigned to play several duets with me, something I really enjoy. Then she pulled out a selection of Broadway
and Movie Musical songs that were all in a good singing key. She played through that music allowing me to
sing solos as if I really knew what I was doing. I’ve never been able to do that for a solid
evening.
Flight to Oklahoma
Ray was generous enough to get excused
from his morning assignments the next day and drive us the 30 miles or so out to Aurora where the
Denver airport is actually located. From
a distance it looks more like a settlement on Tatooine than an airport. But we found it modern, functional and
staffed with fully friendly, accommodating staff. We had, of course let them know that we
needed special accommodations for my equipment. They didn’t even blink. Except for one carry-on bag, our luggage
including my walker was checked through to Tulsa, Oklahoma, our next visit. I
kept the scooter to use around the airport and checked it only as I reached the
Jetway and entered our plane. And it was
waiting for me when we got off the plane in Tulsa.
To Barb & Ron’s
While
a porter and I picked up all our luggage including the checked walker, Carolyn
picked up the previously reserved mini-van.
We had hoped for a Dodge Caravan, we got a Chrysler Town &; Country;
- fully loaded. What a dream to drive. The only hitch in our travel this time was
that the airlines had busted out the decorative rear blinkers in the
walker. We could have stayed and filled
out complaint forms but decided for the Local fish food in Tulsa
Acting on recommendations
from the car rental agency, we dropped in at White River Fish Market for what
was good, if not outstanding fish. We
were both hungry enough to enjoy it.
Barbara had asked us to call when we left the airport en route to their
house. That allowed her to park just
outside the gates to their gated residential area and let us in without
waiting.
Barbara and I had
carpooled together an average of 4 days a week, 1.5 hours a day, for 12 to 13
years then not seen or talked with each other
for over 10 years. But it didn’t take
long to catch up. Although we’ve both
changed, the chemistry still works. Of
course she got along even better with Carolyn. Getting to meet Barb’s sister who had been a silent
member of our carpool conversations was another special treat for me.
Barbara drove us
all around Collinsville taking different roads each time so we’d be thoroughly
lost and never be able to find their home again. She introduced us to Woolaroc, a private
preserve that was developed by Frank Phillips, founder of Phillips Petroleum. Besides having areas for youth camping and mountain
men youth competitions, Woolaroc has an impressive Native American museum. A museum honoring the cowboy humorist Will
Rogers is also in the area and one of our destinations.
Barbara is a
crafter so a tour of the area with her wouldn’t have been complete without
visiting 2 or 3 craft stores including one where she displays some of her own
craftwork. Ron & I spent some of our
own craft energy putting together a 1,000 piece puzzle displaying a Periodic
Table of the Elements.
The area around Collinsville
is known for tornados so we watched the weather carefully. Our next stop was a timeshare resort in
Branson, Missouri which meant we didn’t HAVE to get their the first day we had
rented. If he weather had been worse or
much better we likely would have stayed with Ron & Barbara another
day. But the rain was threatening and we
wanted to get on our way before it threatened any more. The road was great and the Town & Country
van ran beautiful. But the further we
went, the heavier the rain came down. By
the time we hit Missouri and headed down toward Branson the “heavy weather”
sirens were blaring, warning us to take cover.
What cover does one take hundreds of mile from one home or another.
We did make good
use of a short break in the rain to stop for lunch at Lamberts where they
literally throw the food at you. We had just been seated when I noticed a wait
person sitting by a customer. I thought
it unusual enough to make eye contact with the waiter whereupon a large soft
bread roll was soon heading my way. Another
feature of the restaurant was that while you were eating, your entre and sides,
additional wait staff would circulate among the tables adding ‘giveaways’ to your plate. No excuse to come away hungry from there.
A Week in Branson
I must to
being a bit of a sourpuss about Branson. I just couldn’t imagine a place with all the g-rated
shows not being goody two-shoes. But
somehow they pull it off. There are
dozens of theaters and they use thousands of lights to advertise but it isn’t
Vegas or Reno. It’s
more like beefed up Sacramento.
Carolyn counted
66 shows during the week we were in Branson.
We saw 9 and that was more than enough.
I won’t try to recreate the week; just tell enough about several of the
shows to give you a taste:
1.
Marriott’s “Celebration” – We paid for a $10
meal and sampled acts from 10 to 12 shows currently running (see 9)
2.
Joseph – Biblical story of Joseph as a
stage extravaganza with live animals and huge sets
3.
SIX – six brothers whose voices provide
all the back up instrumentals they need
4.
The Duttons – First show we saw
because everyone recommended it. It’s just one family but they do everything.
5.
Chinese Acrobats – Chinese teens &
20’s working their way through school.
Definitely a second team as they actually make mistakes.
6.
Dolly’s Dixie Stampede – a knock off
of mediaeval times, Camelot – fake competition and eating with your hands. I found digging up the Civil War offensive.
7.
Shoji Tabuchi – Great violinist but a
little long in the tooth. His show is a
sampler of every other show in town.
Showboat Branson Belle – Vaudeville type show
on a steam boat which chugs peacefully and uneventfully around the local wide
river. Much better meal than I expected.
9. Delena Ditto Country Variety Show – I lucked out
sitting in the front row of “Celebration” and again at Delena’s own show
earning two chances to sing with the lady herself. It’s a show, of course, but she is kind and
oh so polite.
In addition to the commercialized tourist spots we also sought out
nature spots and less commerce related areas like the following:
- Table Rock Dam Visitor Center – dam
was built by Army Corps of Engineers and is a buttoned down, well displayed
operation
- Table Rock Lake Nature Trail – jointly
operated by Dam VC and local Parks & Rec
- Dogwood Canyon Nature Park. In addition to wildlife stock in the upper
meadows, the lower areas are stocked with fully grown and hu
It is being maintained
spotlessly. We recommend the $20 tram
tour. It’s well worth it.
4.
Hard Work U (College of the Ozarks) This private university is an excellent
example of having students learn value of work while meeting the needs of
College. Has an excellent museum. Easy to overlook the upper floors.
As you can tell we didn’t come anywhere close to “doing Branson”
but it was enough for our first week there and we were ready to move on.
Lawrence isn’t your typical Kansas city
The road to Kansas City was pretty if a little
boring. It looked like it might rain on
us at any time but it didn’t.
We stopped in Harrisonville, MO, and ate at Rooster’s Steak House, a
local coffee house. It looked like it
would be an interesting place but talk about
plain! I got a soup and sandwich
where the soup was Hormel Chili from a can and the sandwich was a slice of
Velveeta on Wonder Bread. Since the
place was packed we didn’t expect great service and that’s what we got.
Lawrence, Kansas
is a university town with a liberal bent
as one would expect. Our friends Shannah
, a Unity Minister, and Kathy, an elementary school specialist feel like
they’ve died and gone to heaven. While
we were there, they drove us all around the area, letting us see just how
wonderful it was. They introduced us to Shannah’s congregation with a picnic
following Sunday services, as well as the countryside where we saw some good
heartland Americans. Unfortunately, I
picked up a head cold so I stayed home with their dog Sebastian while the girls drove to
the big town of Kansas City.
I guess driving
around so much reminded us of our geocaching days in Sacramento. There happened to be a geocache close by the
park area where Shannah’s church was picnicking. Carolyn and I first found and verified it
then introduced Kathy to the game. I’m
only sorry we didn’t think about it in Colorado and Oklahoma. Like Jeannie,
Kathy played some duets with me.
Unfortunately my head cold had gotten so bad that I couldn’t keep things
together.
Flying to Panama City
By now we
were getting pretty familiar with the airport routine, at least with Southwest.
As long as we were there plenty early so we
didn’t put undue pressure on them, and as long as we were courteous and
reasonable in our requests, we were pleasantly accommodated. In Panama City, Florida we got another Town
& Country van. We arrived in
Florida according to schedule but unfortunately our luggage had gone missing. The Southwest personnel did everything they
could to assure us we’d get it the next morning. They also promised to reimburse us for personal
items we might need to buy until then.
Carolyn had thought ahead and packed a carry-on for just such a
contingency. By the time we picked up
our minivan (another Town & Country) we and the security guard were the
last ones in the parking lot. He
willingly helped load the scooter in the van.
My cousin Marilyn and her husband Allyn had
moved much of their household furniture around to accommodate our staying with
them but the logistics of staying at a local motel was so much easier. Allyn helped us as much as Google Maps. And Marilyn surprised us by arranging for our
cousin Jeannette (Bessie’s youngest) to join us at the Golden Corral for
supper.
It was difficult
to get out to see the area. Between the
inertia of disability and familiarity with the area, it was difficult to get
out and really see things. It was hard
to say which of the couples was the more reluctant to get out of comfortable
seats. We did manage to stop and see
their almost brand new city library where I found an unusual geocache that I’d
like to duplicate in Carmichael.
Flying home
Well, actually we flew first to Long Beach so
it was like flying home in stages. Not
sure why we did it except that it’s always nice to see the grandkids. The real flight home to Sacramento two days
later was just as sweet, especially to be met and picked up by Edward and to find that in our absence
Tiffany had deep-cleaned our carpet and the two of them together with the three
boys had kept a watch on our precious memories.
With many thanks
to all of you who made our loooonnnnnnngggggggggggggggggggggggggg vacation so
memorable and enjoyable..
Carolyn & Arnold Loveridge